Monday, February 15, 2010

Happy Birthday Trevor

Chris and Jessica's baby boy Trevor is already one. CRAZY. We threw a small party for him and I learned that buying clothes for little boys is kind of hard!...


Valentines Eve

Ryan and I went to a BYU activity on Saturday night that involved making and eating a delicious meal. My wonderful mother took care of Kaylee and we had a good time. Ryan got a small taste of what it is like to be an HFL major and cook/eat at school.



Happy Valentines Day

Two of the blogs I follow posted their dating story and those are the things I LOVE to read. I am hoping others enjoy them as well since I plan to be a copy cat:)

Ryan was in my Singles Ward when I came to BYU as a Freshman. My cousin/ room mate was an FHE mom so FHE was always at our place. College was a huge shock to me because I went being completely un noticed by boys in high school and yet we had FHE brothers coming by just to flirt all the time. I had set my sights on a guy who was musical and cute and NOT Ryan.
Winter Semester rolled around and our FHE group changed a bit to include a great group of guys from Rain Tree. Ryan was among our new FHE brothers but probably the one I was least interested in because he had a girlfriend already. Why waste my time right? None the less we really liked all the boys from his apartment and started to become good friends with them.
We had a whole ward FHE one night and Ryan came and sat right in front of me and talked to me the whole night. That was the first time I really thought about liking him. I invited him to come watch 24 with me and a group that always watched 24 after FHE. The funny thing is I could care less about 24, I went because the musical boy was always there. I think I was hoping it would either help me decide if I liked Ryan or at least make the other boy jealous. Ryan agreed to come but first he had to take his girl friend home (I was so confused)... what I didn't know at the time was that she was now his ex-girlfriend.
I noticed on Sunday that he wasn't sitting with his girlfriend anymore and that night we all went to break the fast at a park. His ex and her room mates all gave me the evil eye when they saw him sitting with me again. I didn't care. My FHE brothers, me, and my cousins went and did cheer stunts on the grass and I taught them all so well:)
My cousin Ally and I started finding reasons to go over to their apartment and Ryan started staying after FHE. We were hiking the Y one night because a friend was in town and she told us to invite boys. We called up and invited Ryan's apartment but only Ryan showed up. He and I walked up and down the entire way together with no one else close behind or in front... not sure if the roomies were doing this on purpose or not. We went to the creamery for ice cream and he offered to buy mine. Very unofficial first date.
I was still a bit conflicted about the other boy so I wrote one of his female friends to find out how available he even was and she basically told me to never get tangled in his relationship web because it was way too complicated and that was the end of Musical boy.
Ryan and I started talking on the phone and texting for no real reason and then one night he said his room mates were going to the hot tub and that I should come. I wasn't thrilled about the bathing suit thing so I offered we go grab ice cream instead. He much preferred this option and was glad I made it easy for him to ask me out. We went to the Malt Shoppe and talked for hours.
That was it... a month later we kissed (apparently I kissed him... I thought it was a mutual thing) a few months after that he told me he loved me. He proposed 8 months after we started dating and we were married 1 day before our 1 year anniversary.

Friday, February 12, 2010

Please pray for the job!

Ryan is possibly going to get a job working for Riser Media. He knows the president from young men's of all things! He went in to talk business with him the other day and he pretty much offered him a job. He has to meet with a few people in the company next week but I'm feeling hopeful. I really want this to work out...

For reasons I will never understand, Ryan spends his entire life in pursuit of that next great thing that will make him a million dollar company owner. There is ache inside him at all time that prevents him from working for others. he spent his entire life watching is dad pursue different business ventures and swore he would never be like him. "Money's coming soon I promise... this will be big, really!" And yet somehow the entrepreneurial spirit is apparently genetically inescapable. He currently does run his own freelance media business and it goes something like this...

Ryan finds people who need work done that he can provide and they chat about what the person wants and how much they want to pay. Generally he way underestimates the time it will take him and therefore way under estimates the price he quotes them. He spends a million and 14 hours on a project that was only going to bring in a small amount of money. He bends over backwards to get people exactly what they want when they want it and then they take their sweet time when it comes to paying him the tiny sum of money agreed to when he started working. He hasn't really slept in 2 days and all for a project that is probably gonna work out to be like $0.50/hr by my calculations. Not to mention he also works on a project all the time that isn't going to pay him any money until it makes money...IF it makes money. He doesn't even have it in writing that they will ever pay him even if it makes a ton of money.

Basically I don't care if he hates the man, I say bring on the 9-5 with a dependable salary. Why should he be the salesman, laborer, collections, quality control, etc all on his own? Not to mention a full time student.

I must end with the disclaimer that I do appreciate his willingness to work so hard to keep our bills paid and food on our table. Also I should clarify that while Ryan does share that entrepreneurial spirit with his father he is by no means the same as his father. If it came down to it I think Ryan would put his dreams aside and bag groceries if that's what it took.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

The only true constant...

... is change

Go ahead and scratch everything I said a few blogs back...

Monday, February 8, 2010

I love bargains

I grew up in a family where good deals is a bragging right... Here is my bragging
Your eyes do not deceive you, these jeans were actually 49 cents! YEAH!

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Picture Sharing

Just in case you read this blog but do not have facebook I am including a link to my mobile uploads on facebook. These are pictures of mostly Kaylee taken with a phone. She's so silly!

CLICK HERE

It is working!